Roundabout Blues

Sometimes, we get into the same arguments and the same conversations time and time again in our relationships. It can happen so much that some couples can tell right away when they are getting ready to rehash an old argument. 

Even if we agree not to bring the topic up, it may still rear its head. Every time we go around and round in these conversations they become even easier to fall into. 

This is why it is even more important to find a way out of the roundabout. Marriage counseling can help to stop the circling, but there are other steps you can take on your own. 

There are many things happening behind the scenes when we are in that roundabout, dancing around the center. The center, if we continue with that imagery, are the core issues that cause us to get stuck.

Talking with your spouse about how you experience them and they experience you when you get stuck in these arguments can be a key step in getting to the heart of the matter and stopping the endless circling of the roundabout. 

If you need any help getting out of the roundabout you and your spouse may be stuck in, please reach out!